Sunday, April 20, 2008 at 2:58
“Who is my neighbour?”
On our left, we have engineers who stole our garbage can and recycling bin. They invited us to one of their keggers, which was nice of them. They were trying to be considerate as they would be quite loud, partying all night. Though we didn’t take their invitation, we appreciated their hospitality.
On our right, we have these fourth years. We never really talk to them as they keep to themselves. They’re pretty cool. You can usually find them sitting out on their lawn, smoking, drinking beer and talking. I heard them playing guitar today, so I went over and jammed with them for an hour. It was pretty cool. I’m glad I can connect with people in this way, playing music and connecting over familiar tunes. Even though we called campus security on them for playing street hockey at four in the morning, they are cool in my book. Too bad they’re leaving after this year.
“Who was a neighbour?”
This got me thinking about how we connect with those around us. I imagine most of the people live in communities where interaction with your neighbours isn’t a priority. Over the past three years in Kingston, I really haven’t made an effort to get to know my neighbours. In first year, I could be found off of campus with my fellowship friends. In this house, I’ve stayed indoors with my own friends. It’s easy to cocoon in the place that you live, devoid of contact with those that live closest to you.
To this end, how should I live? I know that these are connections and friendships that can be formed. Modifying Piper’s motto, I can’t waste my house! Where I live can also be a conduit to glorifying God. I can use my house to meet those around us, building relationships that can glorify God all the more (e.g. street barbecues or jamming on the guitar). I hope that God would give my housemates and I opportunities to do this, that He may be most glorified in our relationships with our neighbours.